dillema

Hmmmmmmmmm....tis recently encounter tis dillema...the thing is abt promises...

really sia...i dunno how to view "promises"...cuz tat time i got a fren who promises to meet me after i come back for exercise for dinner but after tat the person nv call n i go the person's blog go mention abt the date...then the person say got commitment...hmmmm

then 2 days ago,my encik called me n ask to when i free to take the speaker set...cuz he say tat time durin my ppt he say wanna gib me de...then after tat both of us alwayz not free to meet up...then 2 days ago when he pass me the speaker the time,before tat he was wif another instructor n told tat instructor tat he gonna gib me the speaker set...then the instructor said shd gib him mah...then my encik say he promise to gib n deliver it to me...then he got say once a promise has been made,thou shd abide n follow it...

conclusion...now im damn confused wif whether to be wat im used to be to believe in promises or juz dun gib a damn abt promises...hmmm....realli is a dillema...

-=promises r meant to be broken or promises r sumthing like an oath tat thou shd honour???=-